Friday, December 30, 2005

Question of 7...

Well no one thats my first experience to b tagged :( :(
anyhow i m an introvert & u really put me in trouble now, anyways let me try

7 things I want to do in my life:-
  • to be a good human being n muslim offcourse
  • obedient daughter
  • good in every relationship of mine
  • really want to do something for children(especially child labour)
  • do something in the field of business( as i m a MBA)
  • gain more n more knowledge as i can
  • make everyone around happy

7 things I can do: -

  • i can sacrifice anything for my religion
  • can do anything for my relations
  • Alhamdulillah i can cook( as this is one of my hobby)
  • can hide my feelings
  • i can write poetries( thats another thing not that gud)
  • can do sketching( sometimes based on mood)
  • i m too flexible can change myself( not in bad terms, can differentiate between gud n bad)

Seven Things I say the most:

  • Allah malik hai
  • who cares
  • anyhow
  • God knows
  • ahan
  • okie dokie
  • so

Seven Things that attract me to the opposite sex:

  • confidence
  • maturity
  • decency
  • height
  • honesty
  • kind heart
  • responsible n off course respect others

Seven Celebrity Crushes:


7 people I tag:

No one its a bad habit. :)

cute n adorable...!

Wednesday, December 28, 2005

Last night was dressed in white.....!
Dark sky,
White snow,
Green land,
Brightened Full moon,
Only the sound of Silence
and me!!!!!
The great pyramid, Egypt

Giza pyramids soaring above the city of Cairo, Egypt

The building blocks of the Great Pyramid, Giza

Giza Pyramids after sunset, Egypt

The Great Pyramid is the most substantial ancient structure in the world - and the most mysterious. According to prevailing archaeological theory - and there is absolutely no evidence to confirm this idea - the three pyramids on the Giza plateau are funerary structures of three kings of the fourth dynasty (2575 to 2465 BC). The Great Pyramid, attributed to Khufu (Cheops) , the pyramid attributed to Khafra (Chephren) , and that of Menkaura (Mycerinus) the smallest of the three in the first pic. The Great Pyramid was originally 481 feet, five inches tall (146.7 meters) and measured 755 feet (230 meters) along its sides.

None-the-less, the Great Pyramid of the Giza plateau still emanates great power as a transformational power place. It has done so for uncounted thousands of years and seems destined to continue for ages to come.

Tuesday, December 27, 2005

Changing your thinking

By changing
Your thinking
You change your beliefs;
When you change
your beliefs
You change your expectations;
When you change
Your expectations,
You change your attitude;
When you change
Your attitude,
You change your behavior;
When you change
Your behavior,
You change your results;
When you change
Your result,
You change your life!

Change your thinking!
Keep Smiling :)

Sunday, December 25, 2005

Saturday, December 24, 2005

Use.. this.. in.. life
ENJOY -----------------------------------------COMPLETELY
Issued in public interest on why is Helmet so protective.
Wish you the safest journey :)

Thursday, December 22, 2005

Sometimes I feel you are here
Sometimes I feel you are gone,
Many times I think of you and cry
Many a times I think of you and simle,
Very often I feel to hug you
Very often I feel to turn my back on you,
Does it mean you're gone for me?
I donot tell you the gossips of the sparrows,
I donot tell you the moods of the blue sky,
I donot tell you the dances the wind plays,
I donot tell you the way roses cry,
Does it mean you're gone for me?
When I need to cry I do it alone,
When I need to share I do it alone,
When I need to laugh I do it alone,
When I need to feel I do it alone,
Does it mean you're gone for me?
Or does it mean you are inside me??
(Miss U n Luv U Baba alot n alot n alot, U r always there with me... )

Tuesday, December 20, 2005

Successful Future...

Focus On
What You Like,
Rather Than
What You Don't Like

The easiest way to dig yourself out of a rut is to focus on
what you have got going for you, rather than what is against you.
We spend most of our waking lives getting stressed overthings that we don't like about ourselves,
or situationsthat we have got ourselves into.

For example, instead of complaining about why you are poor...
force yourself to focus on what you can change so that
you will NOT be poor in the future.Action Point:Why are you not letting yourse
lf live to your fullpotential?Write down those things about yourse
lf that you like... or thatother people have commented on.
Now write down three waysthat you can improve on each one.
Make a decision to work ona different one every day.ask yourse
lf thefollowing question....every day...
What you have done during the past
4 Hours to reach your Goal ?
The answer what you get will put you on the winners track...
Spend just 5 minutes every day applying this knowledge...
andyou will be surprised at how this,
in conjunction with your higher target,
will move you forward.

Monday, December 12, 2005


Disappointment and loss are a part of every life. Many times we can put them behind us and get on with the rest of our lives. But not everything is amenable to this approach. Some things are too big or too deep to do this, and we will have to leave important parts of ourselves behind if we treat them in this way. These are the places where wisdom begins to grow in us. It begins with suffering that we do not avoid or rationalize or put behind us. It starts with the realization that our loss, whatever it is, has become a part of us and has altered our lives so profoundly that we cannot go back to the way it was before.
The thing about the many strategies we use to shelter ourselves from feeling loss is that none of them leads to healing. Although denial, rationalization, substitution, avoidance, and the like may numb the pain of loss, every one of them hurts us in some far more fundamental ways. None is respectful toward life or toward process. None acknowledges our capacity for finding meaning or wisdom.

When the daylights gone and your on your own
And you need a friend, just to be around
I will comfort you,
I will take your hand,
I will pull you through,
I will understand,
And you know that
I'll be at your side,
There's no need to worry,
Together we'll survive,
Through the haste and hurry,
I'll be at your side, if you feel like you're alone,
And you have nowhere to turn,
I'll be at your side,
If life's standing still,
and your souls confused,
And you cannot find what road to choose,
If you make mistakes you can't let me down,
I will still believe,
I won't turn around,
I'll be at your side,
There's no need to worry,
Together we'll survive,
Through the haste and hurry.

Saturday, December 10, 2005

Did U know???

  • Did u know tht those hu appear 2 b very strong in heart, are real weak & most susceptible...
  • Did u know tht those hu spend their time protecting others are d ones tht really need sum1 2 protect thm...
  • Did u know tht the 2 most difficult things 2 say are: I love you & Sorry...
  • Did u know tht its easier 2 say wat u feel in writing thn sayin it 2 sum1 in the face...

Luv Alwayz!!!

Friday, December 09, 2005

Each day we struggle to keep up with our daily lives. We have families and jobs and responsibilities we must stay on top of. People depend on us.There are "things that need to get done".
May be we dont always remember to take a minute for the "little things".
But you know what?
Life is too short, and the lawn will continue to grow well after we are no longer to mow it. There will always be bill to pay, mouths to feed, laundary, windows and cars to wash.....
Those that care about us won't sit around "the ol' the camp fire" and reminisce about ability to multi-task better than the rest or our task mastergreatness.
Hopefully they'll remember us by the time we spent:
So take this moment to let them know what they mean to you.

Thursday, December 08, 2005

Difference between Focusing on Problems and Focusing on Solutions
When NASA began the launch of astronauts into space, they found out thatthe pens wouldn't work at zero gravity (ink won't flow down to the writingsurface). To solve this problem, it took them one decade and $12 million.
They developed a pen that worked at zero gravity, upside down, underwater,in practically any surface including crystal and in a temperature rangefrom below freezing to over 300 degrees C.
And what did the Russians do...??
They used a pencil.
Our Privilege
Rats and roaches live by competition under the laws of supply and demand; it is the privilege of human beings to live under the laws of justice and mercy.

When you are tired and discouraged from fruitless efforts & through hardship you have tried!
When you have cried so long and your heart is in anguish
If you feel that your life is on hold and time has passed you by
When you are lonely and your friends are too busy Even for a phone call
When you think you have tried everything and don't know where to turn
When nothing makes sense and you are confused or frustrated
If suddenly your outlook is brighter and you find traces of hope
When things are going well and you have much to be thankful for
When something joyful happens and you are filled with awe
When you have a purpose to fulfill and a dream to follow
Give Thanks To Allah

Tuesday, December 06, 2005

The Road to success is not straight
There is a curve called failure
A loop called confusionn
Speed bumps called friends
Red lights called enemies
Caution lights called family
You will have flats called jobs,
But, if you have a spare called determination
An engine called perseverance
Insurance called faith
A driver called God
You will make it to a place called Success!

Thursday, December 01, 2005

Is'nt it cute..........

Dont Look Back

As you travel through life there are always those
times when decisions just have to be made, when
the choices are hard and solutions seem scarce
and the rain seems to soak your parade! There are some situations where all you can do is to simply
let go and move on, gather courage together and choose a
direction that carries you toward a new dawn.
So pack up your troubles and take a step forward.
The process of change can be tough.
But think about all the excitement ahead, if you can
be stalwart enough! There could be adventures you never imagined just
waiting around the next bend and wishes and dreams
just about to come true in ways you can't yet comprehend! Perhaps you'll find friendships that spring from new interests,
as you challenge your status quo and learn there are so many
options in life,and so many ways you can grow! Perhaps you'll go places you never expected and see things
that you've never seen, or travel to fabulous, faraway worlds
and wonderful spots in between! Perhaps you'll find warmth, affection and caring, a "somebody special" who's there to help you stay centered and listen with
interest to stories and feelings you share. Perhaps you'll find comfort in knowing your friends are supportive
of all that you do and believe that whatever decisions you make,
they'll be the right choices for you! So keep putting one foot in front of the other and taking your life day by day. There's a brighter tomorrow that's just down the road. Don't look back, you're not going that way!

Wednesday, November 30, 2005

A friend is someone we turn to
When our spirits need a lift
A friend is someone we treasure
For our friendship is a gift
A friend is someone who fills our lives
With beauty, joy, and grace
And makes the world we live in
A better and happier place


This is going to make you so MAD! There are three words in the English language that end in "gry". ONE is angry and the other is hungry. EveryONE knows what the third ONE means and what it stands for. EveryONE uses them everyday, and if you listened very carefully, I've given you the third word. What is it? _______gry?

Monday, November 28, 2005


Although things are not perfect
Because of trial or pain
Continue in thanksgiving
Do not begin to blame
Even when the times are hard
Fierce winds are bound to blow
God is forever able
Hold on to what you know
Imagine life without His love
Joy would cease to be
Keep thanking Him for all the things
Love imparts to thee
Move out of "Camp Complaining"
No weapon that is known
On earth can yield the power
Praise can do alone
Quit looking at the future
Redeem the time at hand
Start every day with worship
T"thank" is a command
Until we see Him coming
Victorious in the sky
We'll run the race with gratitude
Xalting God most high
Yes, there'll be good times and yes some will be bad, but...
Zion waits in glory...where none are ever sad!

Saturday, November 26, 2005

A beautifully written book that comes from the depth of Joan's soul. I lost my father at an early age and related to her overwhelming grief at the loss of her husband. I recommend this book to everyone, and in particular, to anyone who has lost a loved one. Really a heart touching.......

  • There are atleast two people in this world that u would die for in a heartbeat....
  • Atleast fifteen people in this world love u in someway including someone u may not even know exist!
  • Your smile can bring happiness to anyone even it's someone u think does'nt like u.
  • No one would ever hate u for any reason other than the fact that they wish they could be more like u
  • Someone, somewhere thinks about u every night before going to sleep.
  • No one is flawless, but we all have a character.
  • Even when u make a mistake, inevitably something good will come from it.
  • U are one of a kind. U are special & unique.
  • No matter how bad things may seem, with a little hope & determination, they'll always get better.
  • The world around u is filled with many wonderful & interesting people - enjoy their company when u can.

Friday, November 25, 2005

Have you ever found a friend who makes your heart glow?
Someone who is wonderful, who you're honored to know,
Someone to laugh with, and sometimes to cry,
Someone who loves you when you don't know why.
Someone who just seems to understand you,
Someone who you love no matter what they do,
Someone who you think of day and night,
Someone who shows up when the time is just right.
Someone who shares all your ups and downs,
Someone you smile with, replacing your frowns,
Someone who appears whenever there is a need,
Surely you must know, God planted that seed.
These seeds God has planted here on earth
Cannot be measured by earthly worth.
They were planted deeply in your friend's heart,
By God's love placed here from the start.
Value those friendships, honor their decisions,
Never try to make their dreams your revisions,
Respect their feelings, never make demands,
Hold their love tightly in your hands.
Never be angry if you don't talk to them each day,
For a heart can be loving even from far away.
Trust in friendship, send a piece of your heart,
This is how friendship was intended from the start.
Hold their memory in your heart and mind,
Continue to love them all the time,
See them for what they really are -
True friends are Angels sent by God from afar!

Did you know?...Intelligent people have more zinc and copper in their hair.
Did you know?...Coca-Cola was originally green.
Did you know?...Wearing headphones for just an hour will increase the bacteria in your ear by
700 times.
Did you know?...More than 50% of the people in the world have never made or received a telephone call.
Did you know?...The "sixth sick sheik's sixth sheep's sick" is said to be the toughest tongue twister in the
English language.
Did you know?...The Eiffel Tower in Paris weighs over 1000 elephants.
Did you know?...13% of Americans actually believe that some parts of the moon are made of
Did you know?...Each king in a deck of playing cards represents a great king from history.
? Spades - King David
? Hearts - Charlemagne
? Clubs - Alexander the Great
? Diamonds - Julius Caesar
Did you know?...Bill Gates has enough money to buy every house in Alaska
1. Free Your Heart From Hate = FORGIVE.
2.Free Yuor Mind From Worries=Never Happens.
3.Live Simply and appriciate what u Have.
4.Give More
5. Expect Less!

Never mind this also happens sometimes...:) :)

Thursday, November 24, 2005

I'm Here for You

I cannot ease your aching heart,
Nor take your pain away;
But let me stay and take your hand
And walk with you today.
I'll listen when you need to talk,
I'll wipe away your tears;
I'll share your worries when they come,
I'll help you face your fears.
I'm here and I will stand by you,
On each hill you have to climb;
So take my hand, let's face the world...
And live just one day at a time.
You're not alone, for I'm still here,
I'll go that extra mile;
And when your grief is easier,
I'll help you learn to smile!
The True Meaning of Happiness
By Debi H.

Once upon a time in a country far away lived a loving mother and father with their two children, (Betty & Freddie).

The father was very wealthy and owned several acres of land with five dozen cattle. The family lived in a large farmhouse with a fireplace in each room and running water from a pump set in the kitchen.

The parents loved their children very much, giving them anything that their hearts desired, if Betty wanted a dollhouse made from the finest teakwood in Japan, her father would have it imported. If Freddie wanted an Arabian horse, he too would have it. Betty and Freddie were growing quite spoiled and began to behave mean & nasty.One day a little girl from the orphanage wanted to play with Betty and Freddie. Freddie laughed at her for the way she dressed and Betty laughed at the way her hair was pulled back with straw rope. Neither one wanted to play with a girl who looked so terrible. The little girl walked away with tears swelled in her eyes. She wasn't upset that Betty or Freddie didn't want to play with her, she was sad because Betty and Freddie thought that money made you happy and better than anyone else who didn't have any.The very next day, the little girl again asked them if they wanted to play at her home, the orphanage, Betty and Freddie laughed at the thought. The little girl told them of great places to play hide -n- seek, which aroused their curiosity, Betty and Freddie agreed to come over and play.Later on that afternoon, Betty and Freddie walked over to the orphanage to play with the little girl. As they walked into the building, they saw many children running about in moth eaten clothes. All of the children were laughing and having fun. Betty and her brother were very surprised to see laughter because they thought that money made you happy. The children were not wealthy and yet they were laughing and playing. Betty asked the little girl why they were happy and the little girl replied "money doesn't buy you happiness" you see happiness comes from within and having the best toys and clothes really doesn't make you happy, just greedy, until you have so much that you turn mean. Betty and Freddie looked at each other and realized that they weren't really happy no matter how many toys they owned. They both knew that they turned mean and nasty. Betty started to cry and wanted to go home. Freddie had walked Betty home and thought of a way to make them truly happy. He explained his plan to Betty and the very next day, Betty and Freddie returned back to the orphanage carrying a large cloth bag, inside the bag they had put all of their toys, they gave all of the children a toy of their own. The children were so very happy and that made Betty and Freddie very happy. From that day on Betty and Freddie were no longer selfish and mean. They both learned what true happiness meant and were very thankful to the little girl who showed them.

Wednesday, November 23, 2005

Pink is for giving so generously
and always being there for me.
Yellow Is for the momories of laughter & tears
that shine undimmed throughout the years.
Purple is for sharing the deepest parts
of the cherished dreams within our hearts.
Green is for helping me to grow
in more ways than you'll ever know.
Blue is for loayalty, tried & true,
knowing that I can count on you.
I thank God for the gifts our friendship holds....
most of all, for your heart

Tuesday, November 22, 2005

Though it's impossible to legislate high self-esteem, our own self-esteem has huge implications for our life paths. Our history of self-esteem begins as children, and follows us throughout our lives; it affects all our decisions - and, like a garden, needs constant tending.
One example of self-esteem can be seen in setting out upon our careers. For a person to make a non-traditional career choice, for example, a woman becoming a commercial pilot, or to go against family desires, requires someone to have a belief in their ability to make appropriate decisions, even though significant others in their life disagree with them.
Almost everyone can identify when they're on top of the world, enjoying the benefits of high self-esteem. However, experts have theorised that high self-esteem can also act as a cushion for those times when life lets us down. Rejections, disappointments and failure are a part of daily life.
Life isn't always fair; and even our best efforts aren't always successful. But high esteem can assist a person in 'weathering the storm' and help us get through life's downturns.
Before you think of saying an unkind word
Think of someone who can't speak
Before you complain about the taste of your food
Think of someone who has nothing to eat
Before you complain about your husband or wife
Think of someone who's crying out to God for a companion
Today before you complain about life
Think of someone who went too early to heaven
Before you complain about your children
Think of someone who desires children but they're barren
Before you argue about your dirty house; someone didn't clean or sweep
Think of the people who are living in the streets
Before whining about the distance you drive
Think of someone who walks the same distance with their feet
Before you think of pointing the finger or condemning another
Remember that not one of us are without sin and we all answer to one maker
And when depressing thoughts seem to get you down
Put a smile on your face and thank God you're alive and still around.

Friday, November 18, 2005

God exists???

This is one of the best explanations of why God allows pain and suffering that I have seen. It's an explanation other people will understand.

A man went to a barbershop to have his hair cut and his beard trimmed. Barber began to work, they began to have a good conversation. They talked about so many things and various subjects. When they eventually touched on the subject of God, the barber said: "I don't believe that God exists." Why do you say that?" asked the customer "Well, you just have to go out in the street to realize that God doesn't exist. Tell me, if God exists, would there be so many sick people? Would there be abandoned children? If God existed, there would be neither suffering nor pain. I can't imagine a loving God who would allow all of these things." The customer thought for a moment, but didn't respond because he didn't want to start an argument. The barber finished his job and the customer left the shop. Just after he left the barbers shop, he saw a man in the street with long, stringy, dirty hair & an un trimmed beard. He looked dirty and unkempt. The customer turned back and entered the barbershop again and he said to the barber: "You know what? Barbers do not exist." "How can you say that?" asked the surprised barber."I am here, and I am a barber. And I just worked on you!" "No!" the customer exclaimed. "Barbers don't exist because if they did, there would be no people with dirty long hair and untrimmed beards like that man outside." "Ah, but barbers DO exist! What happens is, people do not come to me." "Exactly!" affirmed the customer. "That's the point! God, too, DOES exist! What happens, is, people don't go to Him and do not look for Him. That's why there's so much pain and suffering in the world."

Even though I clutch my blanket and growl when the alarm rings, thank you, Lord, that I can hear. There are many who are deaf.
Even though I keep my eyes closed against the morning light as long as possible, thank you, Lord, that I can see. Many are blind.
Even though I huddle in my bed and put off rising, thank you Lord,that I have the strength to rise. There are many who are bedridden.
Even though the first hour of my day is hectic, when socks are lost, toast is burned and tempers are short, my children are so loud thank you, Lord, for my family. There are many who are lonely.
Even though our breakfast table never looks like the pictures in magazines and the menu is at times unbalanced, thank you, Lord, for the food we have. There are many who are hungry.
Even though the routine of my job is often monotonous, thank you, Lord, for the opportunity to work. There are many who have no job.
Even though I grumble and bemoan my fate from day to day and wish my circumstances were not so modest, thank you, Lord, for life.
If we can pass this on to most people we know, it might help a bit to make this world a better place to live in.

Thursday, November 17, 2005


Happiness keeps You Sweet,

Trials keep You Strong,

Sorrows keep You Human,

Failures keep You Humble,

Success keeps You Glowing,

But Only God keeps You Going!

Whatever Happens to You

My Dear Friends, flee from all evil and from everything resembling it. Do not get angry, for anger leads to murder. Do not grumble, for this leads to blasphemy; be gentle-minded, for those of a gentle mind shall possess the earth. Be patient and have a loving heart.
Do not be one who stretches out his hands to receive but closes them when it comes to giving. If you have earned something by the work of your hands, pass it on as a ransom for your sins. Do not turn away from those who are in need, but share all things in common with your brothers.
Your heart shall not cling to the high and mighty, but turn to the good and humble folk. Accept as good whatever happens to you or affects you, knowing that nothing happens without God.

Like what you read today?

Wednesday, November 16, 2005

As the leaves surely change,
With time, so do we.
We grow and we learn,
From the things that we see.
Everything makes a difference,
Whether subtle or grand;
The heart can grow stronger,
And the mind will expand.

It's true, we're affected
By everything that's been said;
Every movie we've watched,
And all the books that we've read.

Though just like the leaves,
No two are akin;
Each one is unique
Like every person within.

And just like the seasons,
We're all changing as well;
For our lives are each different,
As are the stories we tell.

No matter how much we change,
You will always be special to me!
(for all my friends :) )

"Sucess is a metter of cooled decisions,
without constant hovering and changing
of the mind, acute observation, initiative,
and unremitting attention to a vast
amout of petty detials..."
Keep Smiling :):):)

Monday, November 14, 2005

Are You Afraid?

When things look dark and hopeless, that is the time to find out who your friends and neighbors really are. Or do you think you are the only one who is afraid? Look with new eyes at the people you meet daily, and you will quickly realize that everyone is frightened, at least at some level. But every time we share a burden like fear with another person, that burden is cut in half, and is replaced by love. Suddenly we will realize that we are not as alone as we thought we were.