Monday, January 28, 2008

Feelings...

We all human beings have different ways to express our feelings, our thoughts & point of views. Some express through paintings, some through writing articles, stories or poetries, some through music, hence there are many ways of expressions… so I write poetries & short articles here at my blog to express myself, my thoughts, my views, my feelings and my beliefs…

Personally I m not that good in expressing my feelings or concern for anyone verbally and because of this people around me mostly have complains and misunderstands me and at times this thing truly hurts me & irritates me a lot… I always use to think why words are that important? Why expression is required? Why for people artificial expressions are more important then true feelings? Why cant people look into heart? Why they need a proof??

Anyhow few years back I wrote poetry that was basically in urdu on a topic ‘Feelings’ and that was actually based on my belief that true feelings don’t need any help of words or other materialistic or artificial sources to be conveyed to the other party. Gifts, words all are meaningless if your heart is empty and you are poor in your actions.. but yeah on the other hand I do accept the fact that gifts, verbal expression make life beautiful and a relationship more stronger.. but again main thing is one’s true feelings without which everything is meaningless… I wish people can understand this and at least to our close relationships we don’t need to give a proof all the time..

Best Regards,

Samrina

10 comments:

Noushy Syah said...

"Gifts, words all are meaningless if your heart is empty and you are poor in your actions.. but yeah on the other hand I do accept the fact that gifts, verbal expression make life beautiful and a relationship more stronger.."

Samrina it's true, bcoz only you know how true and pure your heart is but as humans,we can't see what's in your heart,unless you translate and express it either verbally or by action...giving presents is one way of showing that you care and appreciate someone - it's not a compulsory but it's a good gesture...as long as not being hypocrites!

Take care sis!

Kevin Blight said...

Feelings do come from the deepest part of our heart, but unless we don't express it, we lose out on the thing or the person we love :) saying this from my personal experience :)

Margie said...

Hi Samrina
When I was younger, I had a hard time expressing my true feelings for all those close to me.
But, now I always tell them how much I love them through my words!
It's a very joyful experience for me as well as my loved ones!
It's good for my soul!

That's just how it is for me!
Take care, dear!
Wishing you a day full of love and joy!


Margie

shades said...

Expressing the true feelings is a great way to reduce stress, too!
Take care, Samri..
Be happy always..!
:)

Eric Valentine said...

A very nice post Samrina. While it is true what you say for the most part, I believe also, that feelings can be transmitted as well with just a loving glance.

Words though I feel, along with the body language really & truly is the means that tells the other person the best. :)

Have a great day my friend.. :)

J. Andrew Lockhart said...

I so agree with you.

samrina said...

Hi & thanks to all for coming by and sharing your views here... :)

God bless you all!

Best Regards,

Samrina

magiceye said...

well said

drips of paint said...

hi Samrina

yep, your topic about words/language/expression has always been on my mind a lot too. I tend to side with you more on the issue.

language in our society has mainly regulated into the tools for logic and thinking, hence the importance to express idea & concept clearly. The idea of love, the concept of humanty etc etc. What it has come down to is mainly words in a WRITTEN form spoken in a formula way of expression. We forgot that feeling does not have to be written down hence does not need to be spoken with thought.

Robert Frost's the sound of a sentence ... what does he mean by that? ... fascinating to me yet I really have no clue what he meant.

Consider the sound made is more telling then the chain of written language....Me Think


//I wish people can understand this and at least to our close relationships we don’t need to give a proof all the time.//
..... no we do not need to

best & hug:))

samrina said...

Hi Magiceye,

Thanks dear :)

Take care

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Hi Tim,

Well I know Tim you always understands whatever i mean to write here and its truly a pleasure to have you around to share your views n correct me wherever i m wrong..

I do agreed with whatever you stated here and i know language is one of the main tool or way to express our views or feelings to the world... but i guess we all need may b a single person around who knows n understands us that deeply that he/she dont need words or any other expression.. thats what we call 'silence understanding'...

Anyhow thanks a lot dear for coming by and sharing your views here.. :)

God bless you!