Thursday, July 26, 2007

CREATING PERFECT RELATIONSHIPS…

There is a saying that a perfect match can only be found between a blind wife and a deaf husband, because the blind wife cannot see the faults of the husband and the deaf husband cannot hear the nagging of the wife. Many couples are blind and deaf at the courting stage and dream of perpetual perfect relationship. Unfortunately, when the excitement of love wears off, they wake up and discover that marriage is not a bed of roses. The nightmare begins.

Few days back I got a chance to gone through this funny sort of thought provoking article according to which a person visited a government matchmaker for marriage and requested him for a help in looking for a suitable spouse. The officer asked him about the requirements and in reply he asked for a good looking, polite, humorous, sporty, knowledgeable, good in singing and dancing girl. Willing to accompany him the whole day at home during his leisure hour, if he doesn’t go out. Telling him interesting stories when he need companion for conversation and be silent when he wants to rest. The officer listened carefully and replied him with a very good answer that “I understand you need television."

Well the moral of the story is that we all wish to have someone perfect in our life ignoring the fact that no one is perfect in this world neither us nor anyone else. We keep on expecting from others without thinking that what others can expect from us and what we are doing for them. I have seen several people around who spoiled their relationships just because of stupid reasons without looking into the consequences of their decision.

To have a strong, perfect relationship both parties have to struggle, both have to compromise, both need to have patience, both have to sacrifice and understand each other. Trust, love, care and honesty are other important elements that contribute a lot in any relationship to be healthy and perfect.

But besides this being an optimistic I also believe that sweet things are easy to buy,but sweet people are difficult to find. Life ends when u stop dreaming, hope ends when u stop believing,Love ends when u stop caring,love without condition, talk without intention, give without reason and care without expectation.......



19 comments:

shades of twilight said...

Samri...
That was a sweet piece of writing..
just loved it. :)

Id it is said...

The last bit sums it all up so well!

floots said...

a lot of sense in this one
thank you
i've been married a long time and we never have angry words
(we haven't spoken since 1982):)
only kidding
cheers

samrina said...

Hi Shades of Twilight,

Thanks dear for such a sweet comment :)

Glad to see you around.

Take care


Hi Id It Is,

Thanks dear :)

Take care

samrina said...

Hi Floots,

Thanks dear, well you are lucky one haan :) May God keep you always smiling & happy in your life dear.

Take care

Janice Thomson said...

This is so true Samrina. When one is able to accept another for what he is not, as well as for what he is, then happiness will surely be his. Not many have learned this though.

drips of paint said...

the ending paragraph is just so beautiful... beyond word ..... my soul is finally set free:))))

J. Andrew Lockhart said...

I love the ending -- very philosophical.

samrina said...

Hi Janice,

Glad that you understood the post dear.

Thanks for sharing your words here.

Take care

samrina said...

Hi Tim,

So you didn't liked the rest of the post?? :( :( ... just kidding :)

Glad that you liked it.

Stay in touch.

Take care

samrina said...

Hi Andrew,

Thanks for stopping by and your liking.

Hope to see you around.

Take care

magiceye said...

well said!

samrina said...

Hi Magi,

Thanks dear :)

Take care

Anitya said...

can't agree more with the last paragraph; very beautiful thoughts and the flow of sequence was excellent too.

samrina said...

Hi Anitya,

Thanks a lot dear for your appreciation your words always raise my morale to write further.

Hope you are fine there.

Take care

drips of paint said...

Oh, I read and like the rest of your post too...that is how I realise I already have a perfect relationship with someone for over 6 years. she never complain and let me do anything as I like. She knows I always turn her on in bed, plus I take my time atleast for about 2 hours, but she doesn't make too much noise though, you know night time and all. she is white and a bit on the petit side...only 22".

:)be good!

Carol said...

Good post.. I have been married 29 years next month..My husband and I we agree most times...

we agree to disagree.
:)

I loved your last paragraph.. if we all lived by this...all relationships would work...

samrina said...

Hi Tim,

Well dear I was just kidding and you really no need to make any clarification, i know you liked whole post n understood too :)

Thanks for your words again:)

You too stay good and happy with your wife.

Best regards.

samrina said...

Hi Carol,

Thanks Carol for your appreciation.

May God always keep you & your hubby happy and agreed :)

Take care