Friday, November 02, 2012


Its not that I miss or love my father for my needs... and I cant say its just coz of the blood relationship that we have... but actually isn't its all true??? I never accept it..neither wanna even think this way... sound really so mean n yukhyyyyy... but this is the reality of life...we humans are so mean n self centered... may be we are created like this that our all relationships in life are based on needs, expectations, desires and our personal benefit..whether its our relationship with our God, parents, siblings, friends or anyone...we all hold some expectations from all these relationships...we pray to God with all our heart mostly when we are in pain or in a serious need...we respect n care our parents coz they look after our needs... until n unless our siblings n other relatives support us n stay good with us we don't return the same to them... we pick n choose our friends based on our liking towards  them or if they help or support us in any means... Isn't it all sound so mean n selfish??? Am sure no one even realize n accept this bitter truth.. and I do expect that many will disagree to the idea even I do...I don't even wanna think like that especially when it comes to my love for my God, my father n loved ones...

Many a times in my life so far I have sacrificed my numerous wishes n desires without even realizing for my loved ones... but today when I am evaluating myself n looking into the depth of all the relationships I hold in my life I feel I am the same common, selfish human... I never stopped praying to my Allah not even the time when I faced failure n losses in my life in fact I always felt that especially during my hard times I get more close to my God... but is it only just coz I love n have faith in my Allah?? or coz of the hopes n expectation that He will some day soon turn back things into my favor as He hold all the powers in His hands so, if I pray to Him n please Him He will help me out or may be coz of the fear that what if God punish us for our bad deeds??  I know its my faith in my God but if we look into the depth of the idea isn't it true that our prayers are based on our needs n expectations from our God?? We pray to our God just coz we know that He is the One who can help us n fulfill our needs...and unfortunately same is the case with our other relationships as well.. isn't it?????

Aren't we humans are real mean n selfish..???

Gosh!! bitter but true reality of life.. isn't it??

Regards,
Samy..

12 comments:

magiceye said...

Fight for survival!
Well presented!

Brian Miller said...

i think at our root we are selfish...and it takes great discipline to overcome that...but at times we need to cut ourselves a little slack as well...smiles.

BamaTrav said...

We give and we take. God wants us to ask and take gifts from him and us to do the same for each other. Like family.

Valerie said...

I am selfish, but I do try not to be. Sometimes it's difficult, sometimes it's not. Oh my!

Lydia said...

I think that parents can help children to understand selfishness. You have to understand what it is before you can work at having less of it. Your post expresses that very well. :)

Magyar said...

your worth
through selfless acts of care
silent ego

__Perhaps we care for others to increase the value we see... in ourselves. That self-value may be best when we know what good we have done, but others... do not; a silent ego. _m

Anonymous said...

I am happy for you that you have realized that you need to make yourself happy too, as far as I have known you, you always did things only for others and that's what made you so special. But, our Lord wants us to be happy in both lives and He does answer our prayers, at times things which are hazardous for us and we wish for it unknowingly, God does not fulfill that desire as it is never better for us. Yes, one needs to be a bit selfish to feel happy as one can not always make others happy. Parents are a blessing as long as they are with us, but eventually we grow and evolve into parent hood ourselves and our priorities change. Therefore it is a must for an individual to set his priorities and change them with the time. My best wishes will always remain with you dear friend. Take Care, Shaquille Chowklatiya :))))

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Margie said...

Hope you are okay.
I send my good thoughts to you.

Margie
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