Three Things

I got this in a forward mail and found it worth sharing so here it is with some additions from myside:

Three things to be

- pure, just and honest

Three things to govern

- temper tongue and conduct

Three things to have

- courage, affection and gentleness

Three things to love

- the wise, the virtuous and the innocent

Three things to commend

- thrift, industry and promptness

Three things to despise

- cruelty, arrogance and ingratitude

Three things to attain

- goodness of heart, integrity, and cheerfulness

Three things that are required in any relationship

-trust, care and love

Three things that always help to succeed

-honesty, hardwork and motivation

Life...??

Once again I am here with the same topic "Life". God! I know I sound damn bore now. Sometimes I really feel that my thinking is so limited . I wish I could bring some changes in myself, in my thinking, in my writting, ......

Well I think Life can be defined in many ways. Few months back I shared here at my blog that life is an exam and whatever is been given to us by God and even not is just to test us and on the day of judgement we all are going to be rewarded for our good work and punished for bad ones. Sometimes I do feel that life is to judge and discover ourself that what we are actually? Throughout life we keep on analysing ourself in different phases of life and in every phase and in every relationship we found ourself different. Everyday we experience new new things and I guess we all change with time. Like life we human beings are also not certain and predictble.

According to some life is a journey towards death, for some life is fun, few define life as a punishment,and etc etc. We all have our own different defination for life and that based on our experiences, our thoughts, our studies and knowledge, and may be few other reasons as well to the list.

Prayers,
Samrina

Thanks!!

Sometimes its really hard to express our true feelings in words though I always beleive that true feelings never need words to be expressed but still I guess world need an expression and words are important sometimes because not everyone can understand you or knows what you got in your heart. Anyhow I have again started my philosophy here, actually I am just trying to express my gratitude for all the care and concern of my blog friends. I am truely grateful to Allah for bringing me so many loving and caring people around. I wish could also be able to come upto the expectations of all around me.

Once again my deep thanks for God and all of you for all your sweet words at my blog. Hope our all relationship will grow with time. Lots of prayers and best wishes for all of you. Take very good care of yourself and all around you. Lets us all together take our steps towards the friendship and peace in the world.

Best Regards,

Samrina.

Life....

Time to time I have expressed my thoughts and views about life here at my blog and today when I started again to write something about it I realised the fact that I am repeating same thing again and again with just a difference of wordings may be. Actually I guess I write all this off and on to help my ownself whenever I am down or depressed. It's reallity that no one of us is satiosfied with our life. No one can have a perfect life with everything, we all have to face both success and failures in life and pass through both happy and sad/depressing moments in life. With all this reality of life it's really hard sometimes to keep ourself positive and sometimes it's really tiring too. I think we all need a moral support of words time to time to keep ourself on positive track. Thats why I beleive no one can live or survive in isolation, we are nothing alone, we all need each other's support, and we all live in a chain. Sometimes we dnt realise the importance of someone in our life but a time came in life when we do realise the fact when we dnt have anyone around to share with and when we dnt have a shoulder to cry at. A sense of owning a relationship is I guess the most important and precious thing in life, this leads to hope, expectation, trust, love and care in our life.

Death Of An Innocent

Well I received this heart touching, lesson teaching poetry in a email and this really made me cry. I found this really worth sharing so here it is for all my blog readers and let us all think over it seriously and appreciate the work of whoever took the effort to wrote this.

I went to a party Mom,

I remembered what you said.

You told me not to drink, Mom,

So I drank soda instead.

I really felt proud inside, Mom,

The way you said I would.

I didn't drink and drive, Mom,

Even though the others said I should.

I know I did the right thing, Mom,

I know you are always right.

Now the party is finally ending, Mom,

As everyone is driving out of sight.

As I got into my car, Mom,

I knew I'd get home in one piece.

Because of the way you raised me,

So responsible and sweet.

I started to drive away, Mom,

But as I pulled out into the road,

The other car didn't see me, Mom,

And hit me like a load.

As I lay there on the pavement, Mom,

I hear the policeman say,

"The other guy is drunk," Mom

,And now I'm the one who will pay.

I'm lying here dying,

Mom....I wish you'd get here soon.

How could this happen to me, Mom?

My life just burst like a balloon.

There is blood all around me, Mom,

And most of it is mine.

I hear the medic say, Mom,

I'll die in a short time.

I just wanted to tell you, Mom,

I swear I didn't drink.It was the others, Mom.

The others didn't think.

He was probably at the same party as I.

The only difference is, he drank

And I will die.
Why do people drink, Mom?

It can ruin your whole life.

I'm feeling sharp pains now.

Pains just like a knife.

The guy who hit me is walking, Mom,

And I don't think it's fair.

I'm lying here dying

And all he can do is stare.

Tell my brother not to cry, Mom.

Tell Daddy to be brave.

And when I go to heaven, Mom,

Put "Daddy's Girl" on my grave.

Someone should have told him, Mom,

Not to drink and drive.

If only they had told him, Mom,

I would still be alive.

My breath is getting shorter, Mom.

I'm becoming very scared.

Please don't cry for me, Mom.

When I needed you, you were always there.

I have one last question, Mom.

Before I say good bye.

I didn't drink and drive,

So why am I the one to die???

Become Master of Your Destiny!

So very true that 'Determination' is the first and main step towards the destination. Once you are determined to acheive any goal in life than you can acheive anything as determination is one's 'Will Power' and 'Will' is the king of mental power. When one controls his/her thoughts, he/she controls his/her mind and that ultimately leads to the control of his/her life and once anyone reaches the stage of being in total control of his/her life he/she can be the 'Master of his/her Destiny'.

Special people in our lives

Special people in our lives

Don’t often come along ,

But when they do they touch us

just like a lovely song

A song filled with meaning

And moves our very soul

A song of inspiration

That helps us reach our goal

A song that makes our spirits sing

Our heavy hearts so light

A song that gives us courage

So we won't give up the fight

A song that makes us smile : )

When we are feeling blue

A song filled with laughter I

t makes us feel brand new

ou're like a lovely song

So soothing to the heart

A song composed by God himself

A priceless work of Art

(Author Unknown)

Trust

Well trust is the base of any strong relationship and really required in a relationship to grow further. Whenever I think about it many questions arouse into my mind like : how to trust someone? how to judge that whether that person is reliable and appropriate for our trust or not? do we trust anyone intentionaly or with any planning or it is something from inside and natural? what are the factors that are required to trust anyone? and so on ........

The answer that i got from my inside and on the basis of my experience and observations is that Trust is something from inside, our inside guide us or pushes us to trust someone and for that exactly we dnt need any reasons , its something from God side and natural. But I have observed that sometimes we all do take time and hesitate to accept and realize the fact that we trust anyone and I guess this is because that time we are thinking about it from our brain and our brain always want logics and reasons whereas i beleive trust is something from heart as every feeling comes from our heart. We trust God, His existance and we do accept that He is everywhere and doing everything but no one have seen Him, just on the basis of our religious teachings that we get from our teachers, books and elders we trust on Him. We dnt need any proof because our inside pushes and leads to our trust on God which is off course been gifted by God.

Few days back I was talking to my friend and she was telling me that she is really confussed about her fiancy,and have doubts that whatever he is commiting now whether he'll be able to do that in future or not, n so on... Well I know I am not that wise and intelligent but anyhow I asked her to first trust her ownself and God and stop judging him because we cant judge anyone 100%, we cant get into one's heart to see what he got inside, whom we love and care we just trust them without any reason.b Plus one another thins that I always beleive strongly is that if I am being honest and loyal with anyone than I'll get same return from the other party as well. So I guess our trust in God and in ourself leads to trust others around.

Well the reason of publishing all this here is to get your all views as well about the topic so that I can also make correction in my thoughts and may be able to get some new additional knowledge about the topic which is I guess related to our all life. Hope you all will contribute to it and share your precious thoughts here :)

Best regards,

Samrina

"IF ONLY WE BELEIVE"

To beleive is to know that everyday

is a new begining

It is to trust that miracles happens,

and dreams do come true

To beleive is to see Angels

dancing among the clouds

To know the wonder of a stardust sky

and the moon wisdom of the man in the moon

To beleive is to know

the value of a nurturing heart

The innocence of a child's eyes

and the beauty of an aging hand,

For it is through their teachings we learn to Love

To beleive is to find the strength

and courage that lies

Within us when it is time

To pick up the pieces to begin again

To beleive is to know that

we are not alone,

That life is a gift

and this is our time to cherish it.

To beleive is to know the wonderful surprises,

are just waiting to happen

And all our hopes and dreams,

are within reach.

HOW TO LIVE LIFE.....

• Be Calm... Quiet... Tranquil....
• Bloom as often as you can...
• Stay close to your Family....
• Give respect and receive respect...
• Set your goals.....
• Always look into the brighter side & stay positive....
• Never expect from other then God...
• Discover yourself....
• Explore the world around you....
• Enjoy the relaxing rhythm of waves...
• Watch the moon rise....
• Spread your wings and take off on your own...
• Then enjoy the comfort of coming home again...

Life is too short.

So Live it, Don't Leave it...

The TOP 5 Things That Keep You Away From Success

A lot of people want to be successful. Yet, only a few people are willing to pay the price. There is a price to success as there is a price to failure. Here are 5 reasons that keep people from accomplishing their dreams.


A lack of motivation. Success comes from loving what you do. Is your current job your passion? When your study highly successful people, you understand that they have at least 1 thing in common: they love what they do and they do what they love. Is this the case for you? If the answer is no, you can start by identifying your passion. This is the best way to get motivated.


A lack of faith. Faith is a firm belief in yourself, God or others that you can do it. Build up a strong vision of what you want to accomplish. In developing a vision, the law of attraction is going to work for you. You are going to attract people, opportunities and money that will allow you to develop an unstoppable confidence.


The fear of failure. The fear of failure doesn't exist. Neither does the fear of success. Fear stands for False Evidence Appearing Real. Micheal Jordan said himself that "Fear is an illusion". It is hard to overcome fears. One simple way to overcome the fear of failure is to read inspirational stories and quotes of people that achieved their dreams. Read one every morning. That will give you strength and hope.


The wrong strategies. When you want to build a business, to achieve something really big, you need to have mentors. You can't allow yourself to loose time, money and energy. Mentors are people that will give you the right strategies; they will provide the right information and will inspire you. They will coach you through the process. Choose correctly your experts, your models. Work with them and adopt the same thinking patterns, the same strategies, the same beliefs. If he did it, you can do it too.


Limiting beliefs. Often times we have limiting beliefs about what we want to achieve. For example, you can really want to achieve a goal but at the same time something tells you: "It's not for you, you don't deserve that" or "You can't do it, remember". These thoughts pollute our minds and darken our life. A quick way to stop these damaging thoughts is to use the power to say no! First, represent in your mind the "limiting belief" and say NO! To it. Now, represent in your mind what you want in its place and say a big YES! You will be amazed how your attitude suddenly changed about the old belief.

BE THANKFUL

Be thankful that you don't have everything you desire,
If you did, what would there be to look forward to?
Be thankful when you don't know something
For it gives you the opportunity to learn.

Be thankful for the beautiful times,
During those times you grow.
Be thankful for your limitations,
They give you opportunities for improvement.
Be thankful for each new challenge,
Because it will build your strength and character.

Be thankful for your mistakes,
They will teach you valuable lessons.
Be thankful when you're tired and weary,
Because it means you've made an effort.

It's easy to be thankful for the good things.
A life of rich fulfillment comes to those who
are also thankful for the setbacks.

Gratitude can turn a negative into positive,
Find a way to be thankful to your troubles,
and they can become your blessings.

Well friends these are not my own words i received this in a mail and i really liked it and beleive in it so i am sharing it here with you all as well, hope you all gonna like it too.

Regards,

Samrina

Don't worry... be Positive!!

Positive thinking is one of the main key for a successful, happy, healthy life. People who are positive and live thier life 'in the moment' are really lucky. So if you can stop worrying about what you've done in the past,and stop worrying about how your actions will affect your future...then you will open yourself up to all sorts of positive events and people that the 'new' you will encounter.Everyone has to worry...but you must try only to worry about what you (and only you) have direct control over.Worry about anything else outside of that...and you will probably be worrying about something that may never even happen.

Nobody has the 'perfect life' and everyone has the ability to manage the positives and negatives in their lives. So its in our own hands to not to let the negatives on top of us...otherwise they will just overtake the positives - and we will be constantly miserable as a result.

So always be positive & happy :)

God Knows!!

When you are tired and discouraged from fruitless effort, GOD knows how hard you have tried.

When you've cried so long your heart is in anguish, GOD has counted your tears.

If you feel that your life is on hold and time has passed you by, GOD is waiting for you.

When nothing makes sense and you are confused or frustrated, GOD has the answer.

If suddenly your outlook is brighter and you find traces of hope, GOD has whispered to you.

When things are going well and you have much to be thankful for, GOD has blessed you.

When something joyful happens and you are filled with awe, GOD has smiled upon you.

Whenever you feel lonely then do remember, your God is always with you.

No matter whole world misunderstood you, your God understands you.

May this whole world hates you but there is one your God who always love you.

Remember that wherever you are or whatever you are feeling, GOD knows!

THE DOOR OF HAPPINESS

When the door of happiness closes,

another one opens;

but often times we look so long

at the closed door

that we don't see the one

which has been opened for us.

Don't dwell on the past when things go

wrong.

Look for the opened doors all around you!

What is Love..??

Well one of my blog friend Khurram posted a post at his blog regarding ‘Love’ and asked a question that ‘What is true Love?’ So I am sharing my views and thoughts regarding this most beautiful feeling Love here and want you all too to add your valuable thoughts here regarding the topic.

There are many other feelings or emotions that are been associated with Love and most of us think that this is love but in actual it is not. For example:

· If you love some one because you think that he or she is really gorgeous ....then it's not love .. it's "Infatuation"
· If you love some one because you think that you shouldn't leave him/her because others think that you shouldn't ... then it's not love.. it's "Compromise"
· If you love some one because you cannot leave him/her thinking that it would hurt his/her feelings .. then it's not love .. it's "Charity"
· If you love some one because you share every thing with him/her ... then it's not love... it's "Friendship"

But if we talk of Love than this is something superior and much much more of all these. Love is a feeling that makes life more meaningful. One’s love can be his/her strength, it can be a motivational tool, it can be one’s power, and many more…..

True Love is when you feel the pain of the other person more than him/her even when he/she is stable and you cry for him/her, Love is when you get attracted to other people but stay with him/her without any regrets, and Love is when you are ready to do anything for that person without even thinking for a second. There can be much more that can be added to define true love because we all have different perceptions, experiences and way of thinking but still Love is a feeling that we all need, that we all desire, and it is a feeling that we all owns in any means. Its true “Love is life” so let us all spread Love on this planet, our home Earth :) :)