A True Relationship...
Most of us feel more comfortable and less vulnerable when we are with a group of people. No one look at us closely and known us intimately. One can easily hide his/her real feelings, weaknesses, or any attribute of his/her personality or nature by being in a group. Whether its a good compliment or bad its been said for a group and been shared by all of the group members equally.
It's true that all of us want to have easy ways in life but again 'easy' is not always best.. Being a human being we all are linked up and no one of us can survive in isolation.. sharing is considered to be healthy.. normally people do achieve their goals and targets as a group rather then they effort individually.. but still there are few things, feelings & relationships in life that we don't want to share.. their pleasure is more by having it alone.. a sense, a feeling of OWNING a relationship is the most beautiful feeling in the world... and that you can't get by being in a group but by having a one to one relationship with someone... where you stand as you purely.. where you don't need to hide yourself, where you open yourself up and share your honest feelings, where you don't have any fears but a trust that this person opposite to you understand you and accepting you with your good and bad.. and there you stand to gain a reward.. a reward of a rich, long lasting and a very strong bond that could never be formed in a group..
Yes, one to one relationships are more work and reliable, and when you treasure these relationships and work to maintain them, the emotional rewards are priceless.. and for your life time you get a relationship that will stand with you in your good and bad with all support and love..
Our entire life we keep on running after money, seeking for a luxurious life, fame, beautiful n attractive partner but all these things can't buy you true happiness, can't bring you a feeling that yes! you are worth living.. can't make you feel what you can feel n enjoy having a true relationship in your life... a relationship of your life.. a relationship you can die with... a relationship that give you n your life a meaning.. a relationship that make you feel beautiful n on the top of the world... and in your last days of life you'll have a hand to hold, so many memories to cherish and above all a feeling that your life been worth living by having a true partner for your life with whom you shared all up n down of life easily...
Wish we all get a true relationship for our life..
Best Regards,
Samrina
