Sunday, February 26, 2006

Why Women Cry ???


A little boy asked his mother, "Why are you crying?" "Because I'm a woman," she told him. "I don't understand," he said. His Mom just hugged him and said, "And you never will."
Later the little boy asked his father, "Why does mother seem to cry for no reason?" "All women cry for no reason," was all his dad could say.
The little boy grew up and became a man, still wondering why women cry. Finally he put in a call to God. When God got on the phone, he asked, "God, why do women cry so easily?" God said: "When I made the woman she had to be special. I made her shoulders strong enough to carry the weight of the world, yet gentle enough to give comfort. I gave her an inner strength to endure childbirth and the rejection that many times comes from her children. I gave her a hardness that allows her to keep going when everyone else gives up, and take care of her family through sickness and fatigue without complaining. I gave her the sensitivity to love her children under any and all circumstances, even when her child has hurt her very badly. I gave her strength to carry her husband through his faults and fashioned her from his rib to protect his heart. I gave her wisdom to know that a good husband never hurts his wife, but sometimes tests her strengths and her resolve to stand beside him unfalteringly. And finally, I gave her a tear to shed. This is hers exclusively to use whenever it is needed."
"You see my son," said God, "the beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman must be seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart - the place where love resides."

15 comments:

Nabeel said...

i read God's replay here .. very true and very touching... i totally agree with this .. great post .. the last quote was almost poetic to me.

Masood Ahmed said...

such a beautiful post....wonderful
i have seen the tears in the eyes of women...these tears say we love and we are made for love....beauty of a woman is in her eyes and the strength of the man is in collecting those tears in his hands before they fall on the floor.he should be right there to comfort her and understand her emotions....

Human said...

Samrina - Thanks for your comments. I understand. I read you daily too. I don't often comment because you cover it all pretty much in your posts.

This last one was truly touching.Thanks.
Peace

Mr. Khurram said...

And God has granted some women the special Wisdom, I truly believe you 're one of them. *Smiles*

God bless you....

Fahd Mirza said...

The doorway to man's heart is through.....yes, Stomach.

Trailady said...

This was beautiful. I'm so glad God made me a woman! Yes, men are strong leaders, but how I have treasured bearing children & the duties of motherhood. I like being soft and feminine. I'm glad for freedom in this country to be whatever I wish to be as a woman. A woman could be a Doctor, a Professor, or a chicken farmer if she so chooses. God is good!

Anonymous said...

Nice samrina...so true and honest! :) thanks for posting it...:)

@masd: "beauty of a woman is in her eyes and the strength of the man is in collecting those tears in his hands before they fall on the floor.he should be right there to comfort her and understand her emotions...."---> if only ALL guys were like that...what a life that would be like :)

Reza said...

Beautiful Post :). IT made me remind of my own mother and how a woman is a part of ones life someone or the other.

If there was an oscar like award I would hand out for the best post of the month, It would be yours :). Thankyou for sharing the gem of a post.

Human said...

Hey Samrina. Missing you. Hope you and yours are ok.
Peace.

imfreenow.blogspot.com said...

I came back here to tell you that this post keeps coming back to me, and the idea of why women cry is so lovely.

imfreenow.blogspot.com said...

I came back here to tell you that this post keeps coming back to me, and the idea of why women cry is so lovely.

imfreenow.blogspot.com said...

I came back here to tell you that this post keeps coming back to me, and the idea of why women cry is so lovely.

Hasan Mubarak said...

That is why I love any woman who's proud of being one.

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Sam!! said...

Thnx alot all of my friends.

Hope u all doing fine.

Takecare,

Samrina